Hi, my name is Quentin Hafner and I’m a relationship problem solver.
I work tirelessly until husbands and wives in relationships feel massively more content, greater levels of peace, and generally overall more stoked to be together then ever before.
I achieve this by helping couples understand the very subtle but extremely important, and mostly overlooked, nuances in relationships that contribute to feeling frustrated, lonely, or sometimes, downright ready to leave the relationship.
More than ever before, couples need a blueprint to navigate relationships in our modern age. Everything has changed regarding relationships, yet so many “relationship experts” are living in the 1950’s with relationship advice. From shifting gender roles, to changing spousal expectations, to how we share parenting responsibilities, most couples feel lost on “how to do it”. This is where I come in.
Simple “communication tips”, “fair fighting” practices, and “love languages” are totally outdated and irrelevant for the modern marriage in the 21st-century, yet this is what the marriage helping community continues to suggest as the holy grail.
The truth is, and you know it, if these things really worked, you wouldn’t be looking for help.
If you are in a relationship and finding yourself struggling, you’re in the right place. My entire world revolves around helping people make meaningful and lasting connections that are sustainable for the long-term.
Hang with me for a little while and I can help you get that too!
If you’re a husband and it feels like there’s nothing you can do to please your wife… that she’s always frustrated with you… and you’re always disappointing her… Hang with me for a little while and I will teach you how to change all of that.
If you’re a wife, and it feels like you’re not as important as you used to be…that you don’t matter as much…that you’ve been neglected and sidelined and now you’re pissed off….you’ve landed in the right place too!
If you’re tired of reading the same old, superficial, “cheap fixes” garbage on the Internet about how to help your relationship, but it doesn’t really help, you’ve also landed in the right place. That’s not for you is it?
I promise, I will challenge your paradigms about relationships, and that’s a great thing to be successful today in relationships. With divorce rates nationally at about 55% and close to 75% in urban & affluent areas, I hope we can all agree that relationships are in disarray.
What makes me slightly different than many other “relationship experts” on the Internet is that I have been a practicing couple’s therapist for a very long time. I’ve sat with countless couples where I have accumulated over 10,000 hours of couple’s therapy sessions.
Surely, that’s witnessing more fighting between couples then any human should ever be exposed to!
But the good news for you is this: I can share with you all that I’ve learned over the years.
By now, I know what works and what doesn’t. It’s not because I’m a brilliant genius, but because I’ve had the honor of thousands of clients trust me and share their stories with me and allow me to join them in fixing what was broken. I am humbly grateful for them allowing me into their lives. I simply want to share with you but I’ve had the privilege of learning.
When I’m not fixing marriages, I’m at home in beautiful Orange County, California living out my own marriage. I have an incredible wife named Hillery and I’m a proud Dad to two little boys named Levi and Samuel.
If you’re ready to take your relationship to a new level, or, if you’re trying to solve a dilemma in your marriage, please shoot me an email (info@QuentinHafner.com) and let’s start talking about how we can make that a reality for you.