Worry about yourself.
I’m sure you, like myself, have heard this often in your lifetime.
Worry about yourself. Don’t try to fix or change the other person. You aren’t responsible for their choices or actions. Worry about yourself.
But that can be very hard when your relationship with the people that matter the most isn’t what you want it to be. Your significant other doesn’t respect you. Your kids don’t listen to you. Your boss doesn’t care about your point of view. Your friends laugh off your opinions.
The instinct is to focus on them: what are they doing wrong? What do they need to change? What is WRONG with them?
But the truth is– the only thing you can change is YOURSELF.
So ask yourself what needs to change IN YOU first. What will it take to change YOURSELF from a restless, discontented, unfulfilled person, into a person of strength, confidence, and assurance.
The kind of person others are drawn to and are excited to follow wherever you go.
I want to invite you along on a journey of self-awareness and self-transformation. I want to teach you how to look at yourself first and find in YOURSELF what you need to build the life of your dreams.
Your strengths and weaknesses, the areas you are failing, the areas that you are succeeding– keeping your critical eye inward, at yourself, instead of outward at the people you can’t actually change.
If you’re ready to supercharge your life and go to new levels you never imagained possible, this is the place we begin. Allowing an objective perspective into your life.
No more looking “at them”, only looking inward, “at me”.
The change you want to see is attainable, I assure you! You’ve just been looking for it in the wrong place. Looking within can feel like hard work, but it’s the only path to the mountaintop of life and business. If you’re ready to look inward, send me a message.
Today I want to talk more about that, and about the importance of a support and accountability network for long term success and growth. The