Every leader wants to be influential. It’s in their DNA to want people to follow them, and not just because of a title… but followed because people genuinely want to be led by them. Think about the leaders who’ve shaped your own life. The ones you would have followed even if they had no position, no title, …
Imagine this: you, a fresh sheet of paper, a beautiful pen, and a new opportunity to redesign your life from scratch. If you’ve ever started a company from scratch, then you know that exciting feeling in the beginning when everything feels new. New ideas, new creativity, new opportunities…this is the rush and the buzz of …
As a conscientious consumer, you might wonder what the ROI of coaching is. A lot of potential clients might ask this question before deciding whether or not to jump into a coaching relationship …. it’s a great question, and a fair question. I’ve asked most of my coaches this question too. Because coaching is an …
The famous author, Stephen Covey, coined this awesome definition of leadership: “Your ability to communicate to others their worth and potential so clearly that they are inspired to see it in themselves.” What a powerful definition to aspire to as a leader. You see, if you’re anything like me, you want to be a great …
How to Tell If You’re Leading Your Marriage, or Not Read More »
There’s one mindset shift that separates the men who win in marriage from the men who fail: an all-in mindset. No escape plans. No back doors. No half-hearted attempts. It’s burn-the-ships or nothing. If you allow even the slightest seed of doubt to take root—if you begin to entertain the idea that maybe your marriage isn’t worth fighting …
Over the years, I’ve worked with thousands of men.High-performers. Providers. Husbands. Dads. Leaders.Men just like you. And I’m going to tell you something I’ve never seen.I’ve never seen a marriage fall apart when a man did this one thing: 👉 He prioritized himself. Not in a narcissistic, arrogant, ego-centric way.But in a deeply honorable way. I’m talking about a man who selfishly, …
I’ve never met a failing relationship when the husband did this one thing Read More »
You’re stuck. Your wife wants one thing, you want another, and neither of you can seem to find common ground. You’re caught in a power struggle that feels impossible to resolve. Sound familiar? The typical advice in these moments is to compromise. But compromise often leaves both people feeling like they’ve given up something important. …
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When guys in my community ask me why and how my marriage works so well (I brag about my marriage often because I have invested a lot of hard work, intentionality, and sacrifice to create what it has become), they’re often expecting a list of practical tips or communication hacks. Especially from me, as a therapist …
On December 21, I was promoted to a black belt in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu. Now that the dust has settled a bit and I’ve had some time to reflect, I wanted to share with you 7 things I learned about life from reaching this milestone. Even if you’re not into martial arts, I want to encourage …
7 things I learned on my road to a BJJ black belt Read More »
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