As men, many of us have been taught confusing and conflicting messages about what it is to be a successful man, husband, and father.
We’re told things like we don’t share our feelings enough and that we’re not “doing it right” as husbands. Or that we don’t know how to be Dad’s the “right way”. We’re told that we should “do it this way”, or that we should “do it that way”.
Many men feel frustrated with the bombardment of messages that can make us feel like we’re doing a bad job, or somehow that we’re defective as Husbands and Dad’s. These messages often times come from frustrated wives, and from society in general.
This is why I wrote Black Belt Husband. It’s a marriage book specifically for men and it’s my take on what’s needed to be a successful husband in the 21st century.