Quentin Hafner

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The Root Cause of All Conflict And How to Get Unstuck For Good

At the roots of all interpersonal conflict, are unmet core human needs.  Whether we’re talking about conflict inside the workplace, or we’re talking about conflict at home, it’s always about unmet needs. Unhealthy conflict is exhausting, draining, and will take the life out of anything good.  I’ve been there, and maybe you have too!?  And there’s …

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WHY “BEING NICE” ISN’T A COMPLIMENT FOR HUSBANDS

WHY “BEING NICE” ISN’T A COMPLIMENT FOR HUSBANDS

We’ve all been taught since we were little boys that “being nice” was the way to go. That “being nice” was the higher road. Conventional wisdom and even other marriage counselors suggest “being more nice” as a way to improve your marriage or relationship. “If you were just nicer, things would be better” they say…. I want to …

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20 questions you need to answer to architect your ideal life

the secret formula for having the life or business of your dreams