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The Root Cause of All Conflict And How to Get Unstuck For Good

At the roots of all interpersonal conflict, are unmet core human needs.  Whether we’re talking about conflict inside the workplace, or we’re talking about conflict at home, it’s always about unmet needs. Unhealthy conflict is exhausting, draining, and will take the life out of anything good.  I’ve been there, and maybe you have too!?  And there’s …

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WHY “BEING NICE” ISN’T A COMPLIMENT FOR HUSBANDS

WHY “BEING NICE” ISN’T A COMPLIMENT FOR HUSBANDS

We’ve all been taught since we were little boys that “being nice” was the way to go. That “being nice” was the higher road. Conventional wisdom and even other marriage counselors suggest “being more nice” as a way to improve your marriage or relationship. “If you were just nicer, things would be better” they sayâ€Ĥ. I want to …

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3 Simple Questions To Dramatically Elevate Engagement

The success of any organization (and family) is mostly dependent on the level of engagement of its people. Strategy is great. Product development is great.  Vision is great. But without truly engaged people to make it all happen, things like strategy, product development and vision don’t go very far. It’s all about being connected to …

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20 questions you need to answer to architect your ideal life

the secret formula for having the life or business of your dreams